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Please, don't treat me like I'm just any other girl. I might be born as a princess, yet I'm not a damsel in distress. I am also a warrior who could fight the most bad ass battle, for I have my own strength and I wasn't raised to depend on other people. I can go to places I want, be happy and contented without relying  too much on other people. It's nice that you are there, but please don't treat me like I'm just everyone else.I just hope that you'll see that.

Please don't ask me about my meals.Don't ask if I have taken my breakfast, my lunch or my supper, it will not help my diet at all, though I know you are concerned, but I'm not a kid, that needs to be fed on time. You are not an alarm either, that will ring once I hadn't taken my meals. There is another way to show your concern. Ask me how's my day. How did it go? For it showed that you are more interested on me than my meal.

If you are going to strike a conversation, please don't start with, "what are you doing?" Because I will answer you with 100% sarcasm. Isn't it too obvious, probably talking to you or chatting with people, unless I'm a multi-tasker which was obviously not. Instead ask me, about my opinion on certain topics or start it with a joke. I would really appreciate it, for I like funny conversations, but I also like serious conversations for it lets me get to know you more.

I also ask you this, please don't give me flowers, expensive chocolates or stuff animals, for I, self declared that I'm allergic to those. What would I do with flowers that withered after a couple of days? Or what would I do with those expensive chocolates, but eat them, right away and what would I do with that stuffed animal, but to display. Effort that's what you always told me, but it's not. Effort is something intangible. Something that you could feel and could not be touched.

I will appreciate, if instead of giving me flowers, give me a letter, a sappy love letter that I can keep even for a thousand years. Words that could inspire and not chocolates that expire. Yes, indeed stuffed animals are cute and cuddly, but I appreciate warm hugs and a pat on the head to assure me of a brighter day. I only ask for little moments, and not material things.

I appreciate small acts of love, for it means a thousand already. I might sound demanding asking you this, but at least I'm not asking too much, like those posts that most girls often shared, but before I finally end it, please don't play with people's feelings. It's not right.

Don't use your sweet talks, if you don't mean it. Don't give false hopes if you don't have any plan to pursue it and please, please, please... If you like someone tell her straight forward for she is not a fortuneteller. Don't make her guess.

XOXO

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